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The darn jetlag kept me awake all night.

To pass the time, I turn to the art of stalking my friends' blogs and social networks updates. Just to catch up on what I've been missing the past two weeks. (It's not cheap to contact them all the way from the other side of the globe, you know!)

I notice a few things, which most of them I will confront and ask my friends in private. Another is, some bloggers are switching from Blogspot to Tumblr.

Why is that? Am I missing out of something? Is Tumblr better than Blogspot, like Facebook better than Friendster?

Don't worry, Blogspot. I won't succumb to peer pressure.

However, if Tumblr is evidently better than Blogspot, like Facebook to Friendster, we may have to part ways.

Perplexing Human Behavior

I once heard someone said that people is the hardest subject to study. And its true, because everyone is different in every way. And we can never be sure what to expect from people.

However, we can always predict their future behavior as people seems to follow specific patterns when it comes to certain things.

These couples of weeks, I've asked myself a few questions.

Why people tend to crumble and capable to do anything to save themselves in a sticky situation?
How could someone who grows up and further their studies in the same city experience culture shock?
Why people brags about the things they do (even when its not suppose to be proud of) and exploits others just to prove that they really know their stuff?
Why do people keep acting as if they're innocent as a white sheet when the truth is they're nastier than shit?

Oh, obviously, these questions rotate around the people around me. If they're reading this, and not notice, I have nothing more to say then. You can close this blog now, as this will be a long LONG post.

I understand that people will always think of themselves first before anything else. I do the same too. But to sell someone out in the process, while you're supposed to be in the mess together? I never force any of you into anything, you were willingly (and eagerly, I must add) signed the letter yourself. You had a choice. You read the letter. And when someone threaten you a bit, you backed out, one by one, in front of me. Fine, I can accept that. Its understandable. You heard every single word he said, as much as I do. So, its on your conscience, not mine. Because I stood my ground, especially when he started to get a little too personal and insulted OUR parents. Yes, our. Just remember, he used profanity to describe your parents, and you just show your back on your parents. Oh, and I know those tears and apologies were not sincere. Because I saw with my own two eyes, the expressions, the reactions on all of your faces as soon as you walk out that door. Seriously, do you feel any remorse? On anything? At all? And today, you didn't want to come and meet the person who probably can saves all of our asses from the bloody mess? Well, at least you shows up, even though you were half an hour late. This shows how much you actually care about the whole mess. And I thought you were better than this. Oh well, it doesn't matter what I think. As long as you're happy with the way you are.


I've asked myself, over and over and over again. How could someone experience culture shock if they've been in the culture all their lives? Imagine this situation, you live in Kota Kinabalu, which is not much of a city to begin with, then you further your studies in UiTM, which located outside the township (and in a pretty much secluded area), and suddenly, you're experiencing culture shock. How does that even possible? Oh, don't use your parents' relationship as an excuse. EVERYONE has a family problem. It's a matter of how you carry yourself. Your sisters are doing fine, and they're in a bigger, more seductive, city, while you're here, in a sleepy town. What is your excuse then? They experience the same thing as you do, and has more temptation in that metropolitan city, but they manage to resist it. How about you? The "Oh, my parents are divorced" thing is not a valid excuse. You're not alone. Your parents are not the only ones divorcing in this world. Statistic said 3 out of 4 marriage fails. Just be grateful it wasn't a nasty divorce, and your parents are still friends. Worst of all, you're all grown up when this happens. Oh, just a reminder, looks is nothing compared to a good heart. So, you're pretty. I admit. And you obviously knows it (as you said it out loud yourself). But that's not your ticket to go around playing other people's heart. Luring and deceiving them into falling for you. Yes, deceiving, as you were lying about yourself. Then, you left them high and dry (literally, or maybe you didn't) for their acquaintance. Your dream is to be pursued by guys. Okay, never mind, that's every girl's dream. You want them to fight for you. Sure, the situation looks so romantic in movies. The difference between you and the heroins in the movies is, you're doing this knowingly and enjoying every bits of the moments. You're taking advantage over the blindness of love, of people that actually care about you. You lie, you cheat, you stole, you hurt. How long are you going to keep up with this charade? The truth will eventually reveals itself. And when that happens, no one can help you.

Writing this just frustrate me a little more. (Okay, that's an understatement.) I'll continue to elaborate more on the last two questions in the next post.

Happy Reading! (Or maybe not)

Fanatic Much?

Check out the video on how Kanye West ruined Taylor Swift's moment.

It was her first Moonman, and he just HAD to do it. Spoilsport!



You can see how suprised, excited and happy Taylor was when Taylor announced she won the VMAs Best Female Video award. (Confusing isn't it? With two different Taylor in the same sentence. The latter is Taylor Lautner a.k.a. Jacob Black). Pink, who was nominated for the same category, was smiling delightfully for Taylor (Swift) too!

It was supposed to be a good day for Taylor Swift. Another speech on how she can't believe how lucky she is. Thanking everyone and make some witty comments at the same time. (Yeap, THAT similar Taylor Swift's speech.)

We forgot to count Kanye West in the equation. He's always a man of his own opinion. (HIS OWN. No one else willingly back him up, EVER.) And we never knew that he's a HUGE fan of Beyonce Knowles.

So, Kanye's being Kanye. He went up to the stage, took the mic off Taylor's hand and praise Beyonce in national (or should I say international) TV which airs live in the States. Well, at least Kanye did CONGRATULATED Taylor beforehand. (As if that'll make it up for the disaster.)

Then, it's Beyonce's turn to have the suprised look that was on Taylor's a minute before. Except, without the delight, of course. In fact, she looked appaled by Kanye's action.

After Kanye returned the mic to Taylor, you can see that the excitement has drained away. THANKS A LOT, KANYE! She's too, I can't even find the word to describe what Taylor could have felt at that moment, to say anything.

After the incident, celebrities start to show their support to Taylor Swift, and tell Kanye off for being out of line. (Of course, their exact words would be much more offensive, but you get the idea.)

Well, don't expect any statement from Beyonce. She's always been a private person, this won't be in her nature. Plus, Beyonce, Jay-Z and Kanye are friends. However, by the look on Beyonce's face, I'm pretty sure she'll handle the situation classily (as she always has been) and will be having a talk with Kanye in private.

Oh, afterward, Taylor still performed as scheduled being a professional that she is. (Take a note, Kanye.) I must say, she handled the situation well and rocked the performance. I would do my all too, if I were in her shoes, just to show that (fill in the blank) Kanye West that I deserve the award!

Here's the video of the performance.


P.S: Kanye, apology NOT accepted. Taylor Swift thank you for bringing her more fans.

Muslim Model To Be Caned For Alcohol Consumption

Even bigger surprise, I found out about this from Perez Hilton. Waaay to put Malaysia on the map.



Here's the article from CocoPerez.com

Two years ago, Malaysian model Kartika Sari Dewi Shukarno was arrested for drinking beer at a hotel bar while visiting Malaysian from neighboring Singapore, where she lives, and was subsequently sentenced to pay a $1400 fine and to be struck six times with a rattan cane.

Malaysia forbids the consumption of alcohol by any Muslim, even visiting ones, despite being a self-proclaimed moderate Muslim country. The law is only applicable to Muslims, who constitute about 60% of the population; those who are Buddhist, Christian, or Hindu are free to drink as they like.

Kartika's case has been particularly controversial, as people have viewed it as an illustration of the growing fundamentalism in the diverse nation. Slightly North of where Kartika was arrested, in Malaysia's Kelantan state, women are forbidden from wearing bright lipstick and high-heels, under the explanation that banning these keeps safe the morals and dignity of women and decreases the likelihood of rape.

Ladies, move!

While two others have been given the same sentence, Kartika is the first to go through with it. What's more, she wants the caning to be public, saying "let's be transparent about it," and insisting that if the purpose of the punishment is to set an example for others, then she should be flogged in the public eye.

Kartika's father, Shukarno Abdul Muttalib says that, "the law is a little bit wrong. They say they are gentlemen who want to uphold values. The public should judge how gentlemanly it is."

Kartika's caning will take place a week from Monday. No word yet on whether her wish for public display will be granted.

Ouch!

I was curious, if its true. After all, you can't trust everything from Perez. Plus, her name was too Indonesian - Kartika Sri Dewi Shukarno. I'm not being prejudice or anything, just inquisitive. So, I googled it. Apparently, it is true.

Here's another article from The Globe and Mail.

A Muslim model on Friday brushed aside an appeal by human rights group Amnesty International to Malaysian authorities not to cane her, saying she is ready to face the penalty for drinking beer.

Kartika Sari Dewi Shukarno, a 32-year-old mother of two, insisted she is ready to be lashed six times with a rattan cane next week for breaching the Muslim-majority country's Shariah law, which forbids Muslims to consume alcohol.

“I want to respect the law,” Ms. Kartika said in a telephone interview from her northern home state of Perak. “Who am I to question the Islamic authorities' laws? That is beyond me.”

Ms. Kartika is to become the first Malaysian woman to be caned in prison after she was arrested in a raid for drinking beer at a hotel lounge last year and sentenced by a Shariah court in July in what was considered a warning to other Muslims to abide by religious laws.

Amnesty International earlier Friday urged authorities to “immediately revoke the sentence to cane her and abolish the practice of caning altogether.”

“Caning is a form of cruel, inhuman and degrading punishment and is prohibited under international human rights law,” it said in a statement.

Government lawyer Saiful Idham Sahimi said earlier this week the penalty was appropriate because drinking was a serious offence for Muslims.

Islamic authorities insist that the purpose of the caning is to educate rather than punish. They say the rattan cane to be used on Ms. Kartika will be smaller and lighter than the one used for men and that she will remain clothed. The prison official who canes her is also supposed to use very little force.

Men convicted of civil crimes such as rape and bribery in Malaysia are caned on their bare buttocks, breaking the skin and leaving permanent scars.

Ms. Kartika said four close relatives, including her father and sister, have requested permission to witness her being caned in a women's prison some time next week. Officials have indicated the request would be granted, she said.

She also asked for the caning to be done publicly to send a clear message to Muslims that they should shun alcohol, but authorities refused, citing official procedures.

Officials are scheduled to take Ms. Kartika to the prison Monday. She will be separated from regular inmates, and she said she plans to bring her own clothes, a copy of the Koran and other personal belongings.

The law provides for a three-year prison term and caning for Muslims caught drinking, but most offenders are fined. Drinking is legal for non-Muslims.

Hm, that send out a strong warning to us youngsters in Malaysia. Be careful with what you drink.

Anak Derhaka

I found this article on The Star Online.

This is really sad and making me feel really angry to the ungrateful offspring.

SIN Chew Daily reported that an elderly couple in Singapore who gave up their duplex to their son ended up homeless after they were chased out of the house by the ungrateful offspring.

The couple now call the staircase of a school their home.

The man, who was named as Lim, was a manager before he retired. He had a son and a daughter who lived in Jurong, Singapore.

Relating his ordeal to a secretary of the school, Lim said he and his wife decided to give their duplex home to their son as a wedding gift about two years ago.

The couple thought that they could live in the house with their son. He, however, decided to sell the property for RM960,000 to buy another condominium. Lim and his wife were then sent off to live with the daughter.

After a year, the daughter decided that they were no longer welcome and banned them from touching her children.

The couple could not enter the house after their daughter changed the locks to the house.

The parents gave their home to the son as a wedding gift. But he wouldn't take them in, a year later, their daughter don't want them too. And she even banned them from seeing their grandchildren?! WTF?

Parents can be annoying, but they don't deserve this kind of treatment! After everything that they did and sacrificed for the children's sake, this is what they get?

There must be a law against this.

Note to self & parents: Don't change the name of the home ownership, EVER. Just put them in the will. That'll make sure you have security in your own home.